WHY CHOOSE CONFLICT COACHING?

Charley offers both 1:1 Conflict Coaching and Transformative Conflict Circle Facilitation (Groups)

Through key learnings from gurus such as Byron Katie, Dominic Barter, Miki Kashtan and Ceri Buckmaster, Charley’s Transformative Conflict Coaching approach is rooted in the principles of nonviolent communication. It is tailored to facilitate individuals, couples or groups illumination of other angles and independent perspectives within the conflict. Often from a “depersonalised” perspective we are able to powerfully witness the event from a neutral standpoint, this in itself has the potential to shift and transform tensions within us. 

Charley invites you to dive into your shadow.. 

As it is only in the darkness where we can see the stars.

BENEFITS AVAILABLE FROM TRANSFORMATIONAL CONFLICT COACHING

✔️ The “feedback” that is gathered offers an opportunity to discover the triggers, values and needs of those involved
✔️ Techniques are applied to define the conditions necessary for everyone to feel heard, seen, met and supported.
✔️ Transformation often comes from people finding a deeper sense of empathy, understanding and / or self compassion, alongside seemingly ‘obvious’ solutions that tend to emerge from the process.
✔️ Conflicts can often be directly linked to our emotional wounds and unresolved pain from the past, so Charley teaches participants how to observe sources of tension as well as techniques to self-regulate.
✔️ Generate self-empowerment via further understanding your needs and how to clearly make requests on their behalf.

“I saw Charley almost a year ago for fundamental communication difficulties with my business partner. In fact we both saw her separately. It was indeed a benefit to us both in our communication, understanding & giving space to each other which has improved radically. I give thanks.”  Malika Oct 2021

WHAT HAPPENS IN A TRANSFORMATIONAL CONFLICT COACHING SESSION?

Conflict Coaching 1:1

Ideal for anyone where a conflict is getting you down, affecting your well being or feeling unresolvable. A guided session to be seen and heard, and for talking it through, identifying what is important and what requests to yourself or others may be necessary. There is no need to involve other parties but they can be invited into a process at a later date, only if this feels appropriate.

One hour session(s) on Zoom or face to face. £60

Transformative Conflict Circle Facilitation (Groups, 2 people +)

For 2 people or more who wish to collaborate to transform a conflict which has so far been unresolvable. The criteria for this process is as follows;

All people involved are invited to engage in and commit to the process where they:

• participate in a 1:1 Coaching session (pre-circle) 1 hour;

• attend the Transformative Conflict Circle (1.5 hour for 2 people /up to 3 hours for groups);

• attend the follow up Review meeting (post circle) 1 hour;

One hour session(s) on Zoom or face to face.

“Results can be mind blowing. When people come together with an intention to resolve in a safe and structured environment magical things tend to happen.” Joe

PRICING:

Transformative Circle Session pricing example:

4 people (4 x 1:1 coaching)

+ 2 hour circle, 

+ 1 hour review 

+ admin and planning 

= £400